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Breaking Into Big Tech

You asked, here it is. How I ended up working in Tesla and Microsoft without the pedigree.

Who's this for?
Audience Students, New Grads, Pivoters
Assumption You ask because you’re hoping to find some clues on how I did it.
Objective

To share the events and actions that aligned which led to me ‘Breaking into Big Tech’. To encourage and inspire you that your path is yours.

Introduction & Objective

I was great at following directions, terrible at finding direction.

Growing up with access to internet tutorials and walk-throughs, I believed that success was something I could unlock if only someone gave me step-by-step instructions for my goals.

The schooling system I grew up in rewarded rote memorization and regurgitation more than creativity or critical thinking. I would snatch any practice test (complete with correct answers) I could get my hands on and beg anyone and everyone for ‘tips’ rather than properly learning the material. And it worked, for a while.

Looking back, I wasn’t sure what to do if I didn’t know someone who’s done it before.

I was frustrated by paywalls, gatekeepers, and folks who refused to break down exactly what they did and instead, gave me these overly generalized advice that never went beyond the surface level (e.g. “just network/tailor your resume/grind LeetCode/etc.”)

But then I met folks who seemingly did everything right, but still weren’t where they expected to be.

I don’t say this to discourage you. Inferring and applying ideas to your personal situation is a skill. A skill I want you to practice and perfect. So, keep that in mind if you decide to read on.

Anyway, you’re probably here because the question you’re asking me is:

How did you get into Big Tech? Like Microsoft and Tesla?

And sometimes, the tone of this comes across to me as:

How did someone like you, a non-target applicant, pull it off? What’s the secret? Tell me.

Screenshot of a LinkedIn post titled “How I Got Into Tesla ⚡” with a photo of Xue kneeling on a sunlit lawn in front of a Tesla office building; 6,883 reactions and 165 comments.
My LinkedIn post about getting hired at Tesla got really popular

When I moved to Seattle for Tesla, I made this post because I wanted to give back to the community when they shared advice. It was so popular, my friends got notifications lol. This reinforced that people only cared about me if I was ‘somebody’. 🙁

Took me a long time to recover. But I think sharing some of the event and actions that aligned for me will help you align yours. 🌻

Objective

The purpose of this document is to:

  • Answer questions of “how did you get into Big Tech/Microsoft/Tesla/etc.”
  • Share what worked for me and under what circumstances
  • Hopefully, convince you that everyone’s story is different. This is not a roadmap. You do not need to emulate this 100%. Rather, understand that these are just pieces of my story. I hope these pieces spark ideas for yours.

Career Timeline

DateMilestone
2017 FallEnrolled into Grand Valley State University in Michigan
2019 SummerStarted co-op at Herman Miller as a Controls Engineer
2021 FallGraduated with Bachelor’s of Engineering in Electrical Engineering 1
2021 AugustStarted with a new team at Herman Miller as a Software Engineer
2022 NovemberStarted at Tesla as a Software Engineer
2024 AprilStarted at Microsoft as a Software Engineer

My “Non-Target” Profile

Demographics

  • International student
  • Woman
  • Asian
  • First-generation graduate
  • Non-target university
  • Non-Computer Science degree

Psychographics

  • Low-confidence and a lot of self-doubt
  • Lack of immediate access and resources
  • Didn’t know what I didn’t know

Education

In 2021, I graduated from Grand Valley State University with a Bachelor’s of Engineering in Electrical Engineering.

Xue holding silver '2' and gold '1' mylar balloons outside a brick campus building, wearing a blue graduation gown with honor cords and kicking one foot up.
Undergrad was hard, like, really hard

🚀 Steps I took that helped:

  • Learning how to learn
  • Pre-work before class
  • Staying on top of assignments
  • Going to office hours
  • Getting diagnosed and medicated for my ADHD and other mental health challenges
  • Understand my academic major requirements

🌱 What I would do differently today:

  • Gotten ADA accommodations sooner
  • Joined Society of Women Engineers sooner
  • Prioritize staying on top of immigration paperwork and rules by working with the school’s DSO (such as updating addresses/taking reduced course load/etc.)
  • Worked on my confidence issues

Internship and Early Career

Between 2019 - 2021, I had a co-op with Herman Miller as a Controls Engineer.

In August 2021, I transitioned to a different team at Herman Miller as a Software Engineer.

Xue seen from behind at a Herman Miller cubicle desk, working on a laptop showing an AutoCAD electrical schematic (not company info), with sticky notes pinned to the wall and a donut-print mug to the left.
My time at Herman Miller is when I taught myself software engineering because of projects I was assigned

🚀 Steps I took that helped:

  • Went to career fairs
  • Used the school’s career resources department
  • Got my resume reviewed
  • Did mock interviews
  • Showcased some of my web-dev abilities
  • Networked a little with colleagues as an intern

🌱 What I would do differently today:

  • Networked way more
  • Started my LinkedIn profile earlier
  • Documented my journey as an intern for visibility
  • Invested in meaningful mentorship sooner (doesn’t necessarily mean only financially, investing time and how I can help my mentors is what I mean too)

Breaking into Tech

Joining Tesla was a catalyst for me. I worked on the Digital Experience team. I really fell in love with React around this time.

Xue smiling in front of a brushed-metal Tesla suite plaque numbered 103, mounted on a cream office wall.
Starting at Tesla, I had to uproot to Seattle but learned so much here!

🚀 Steps I took that helped:

  • Using Codecademy to learn React, JavaScript, Data Structures & Algorithms
  • Using YouTube and FreeCodeCamp to learn Python, PHP, and C#
  • Showcased my projects and portfolio
  • Regularly engaging and posting on LinkedIn
  • Had a Project Presentation ready to go
  • Being part of online communities focused on software engineering
  • Collaborating and rolling with the punches in a fast-paced environment
  • Focused on being a team player
  • Learned what business and stakeholders value

🌱 What I would do differently today:

  • Highlight my technical skills more
  • Started a Smile File earlier to document career achievements and contributions
  • Embraced my note-taking skills at work
  • Not put my self worth in my career title or company

Leveling Up in Big Tech

I later joined Microsoft.

A hand holds a Microsoft employee badge showing Xue's name and headshot, with the four-square Microsoft logo on a white card and blue header band.
I think this is about the time people started taking me seriously

🚀 Steps I took that helped:

  • Presentation of my skills as a senior engineer
  • Portfolio of high-impact projects
  • Communication skills
  • Working on my executive and leadership presence

🌱 What I would do differently today:

  • idk, this is where I am currently. So, idk yet lol.

Lessons

  • I developed clarity.
  • I practiced every day.
  • I leaned into communities.
  • I embraced gratitude.

Nonlinear Version

And this is the problem when I try to answer this question.

The above looks like a linear journey. It was not.

There were low times. Really low times.

I was depressed, a lot. I have attempted.

I was lonely.

I’ve been betrayed. And harmed.

My dad passed away.

My family was far away.

I kept making mistakes.

People hurt me. I hurt people.

I am a bundle of fears of anxiety,

held together by prayer.

Your path will probably be nonlinear too. Onwards anyway.

Xue leaning over a grey couch in a sunlit living room, hugging Brandy — a cream-colored goldendoodle with her tongue sticking out — against her cheek; a window with sheer curtains and a cat tree are visible in the background.
Onwards anyway 💫

Next Steps

Hope this answers some of your questions! ☺️

Footnotes

  1. Note this is not Computer Science or Software Engineering

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